Hi, remember me? I know. I’ve been very naughty. I should be spanked. Line up, ladies. I’ll bring the whips, dark lager and whipped cream. Party at Brian’s!
Unlike my past blogs, this one isn’t about Nosty’s Nook. While that project is still ongoing, the hot weather and life in general have put her on the back burner for a little while. You’ll be hearing much more about Das Nook when the temps get down below 100 degrees.
Since my last blog, both of my children have blessed me, each with a perfect grandson. Noah Patrick Tolbert, now eight months old, and Hank Daniel Greenleaf, now three days old, have further blessed what has become a very wonderful life.
Facebook has been occupying a great deal of my gray matter lately so I thought I’d jot down a few thoughts on that subject and share some other news.
As of this morning, my latest book, Born Bent Over: Flashing the Vertical Smile at Middle Age, has been granted premium distribution and will be available in ebook, paperback and hardbound formats through all the major book and electronic book distributors within the next few weeks. To say that’s a milestone for me would be like saying a nuclear explosion in my underwear drawer was a minor disturbance. I’m so proud. Danby Mountain Press, my publishing company, (my children are named Daniel and Shelby, hence the name Danby) has been a struggling, scratching entity since 1997. It’s taken us a very long time, but we’re finally starting to see some light at the end of a very long tunnel.
Anyway, enough about me. Bring on the blog!
Is Facebooking for the Aged?
“What the hell is a face book? Did you write that? It isn’t one of your naughty books, is it?”
Believe it or not, I still hear that from some very intelligent people who refuse to be assimilated into the world of cyber communications.
My very best friend in the world; a man to whom I would give a kidney, and with whom I shared my first cigarette, my first beer and who was also in an adjoining bedroom the night I “became a man,” refuses to have anything whatsoever to do with a computer. Of course, he’s a mail delivery person so he’s probably fallen into the whole email vs. the postal service conspiracy, but that’s another blog. He does, however, tell everyone he knows to look me up on Facebook. Don’t worry, Dude; your position is safe. I get enough junk mail on a daily basis to keep the post office afloat for many years to come. If you’re really worried about job security, become a sanitation worker. I haul bags of the aforementioned junk mail, shredded, of course, to the curb daily.
I became ensconced in the world of Facebook shortly after its inception. Unlike my aforementioned “brother-from-a-different-mother,” I freely admit to being a computer nerd. I’ve been playing with computers since the internet was nothing more than a bunch of picture-less billboards and the TRS-80 was giving way to the 8088.
Ok, so I’m old.
My original intent in becoming a FB’er was to get the word out when I published a new book, or to occasionally converse with my minions who will, one day, help me conquer the third world country I will, without question, become the fair and just ruler of. The gang at Happy Acres is just waiting for my signal to come across the Take-over Hot Line (two tin cans tied together with a very long string). Thorazine and shock therapy are our friends………..
However, what started out as a platform for my books and stories has become a lifeline of sorts. On a daily basis, I can keep in touch with friends, new and old, family up north and, most importantly, my two children; both of whom have, within the last eight months, blessed me with two beautiful grandsons. I have an entire external hard drive dedicated to the pics my daughter and son post daily of my two future camping buddies. While nothing can compare to holding those two little monkeys in my arms, I’m stuck in the middle class. Until that semi-hostile take-over (a few at Happy Acres have anger issues….Sue!!) of that third world country, I don’t have access to a private jet and can’t make it down to see my kids and grandkids as often as I’d like. I’m hoping my retirement will be a healthy (both physically and financially) one, and I’ll be able to haul my camper down there for long stretches of quality time.
Who’d-a-thunk it? With a few mouse clicks, I’m up to date on all that’s going on with the people I care about: and all from the comfort of my office chair.
I’ve talked to a few of my colleagues who flat out refuse to become involved in the world of social networking. Many of them are computer savvy, some can barely check their email. Their reasoning for avoiding social networking sites varies, but some of the most interesting responses I’ve gotten are from those who profess a fear of becoming addicted.
Wait a second! Is that a bad thing? I may as well stand and take the pledge now: “Hi, I’m Brian, and I’m a FB addict.” I have a feeling there’ll be a twelve-step program available to those of us with this affliction very soon. I, however, am not a quitter! Until some better way of communicating comes along, (or until FB “updates” with that one straw-that-breaks-the-camel’s-back, irritating update, (like Timeline) regardless of how ferociously FB addicts object to it) I’ll be a dedicated FB’er.
FB has helped me rekindle a great many old friendships that, due to the miles and life’s different paths, had been dormant over the years. I’ve managed to be brought up-to-date on what’s going on in many people’s lives, and have marveled over how many of those who, like myself, were voted most likely to become wards of the state by our graduating class, have managed to become pillars of their community. Admit it, a whole bunch of us denizens of the “back path” at Taconic have managed to move from the back path to the front office.
One of the amazing things that FB has brought to light in spades is the fact that many of the young and vivacious class of 1978 are now grandparents. We, the seventeen and eighteen year old graduating class from Taconic High School, who were sprung loose on the world to reap havoc and shake the establishment to its very core, have Preparation H and a whole host of prescription bottles, balms and salves in our medicine cabinets.
Where has the time gone? If my math is correct, our thirty-five year reunion will be coming up in 2013. Judging from some of your profile pics, most of you have aged gracefully. Some of you, even amazingly, *wink* My profile pic is fair warning to you all not to call animal control when I walk in the door. I am not an animal! Unlike most of you, time has not been very good to me. As a matter of fact, if I’d been born with an identical twin sister, my profile pic would be her; cigar and all. Just add about 200 pounds.
To answer my original question, I don’t know whether FB is for the aged or not. We’re not old. It took a long time, but I honestly believe that you truly are as old as you feel. That being the case, I’m still that seventeen-year-old who had to wrench his diploma out of Mr. Diamond’s hand back on that hot June day in 1978 and run from the platform before he had a chance to snatch it back. I am the grandfather of two perfect little boys. The honor of the title of grandfather is not an indicator of age. It’s a blessing from God. There may be some prescription bottles and Preparation H in my medicine cabinet, but that seventeen year old is still at the helm. Never let a number rule your life. Keep grabbing for that brass ring and never succumb to black socks and orthopedic sandals. The grim reaper can’t catch you when you run in Nikes.
In closing, I’d like to thank my 180 FB friends for the many laughs and for sharing your lives with me. I have always shot for quality, not quantity, in my friend’s list and can honestly say that, with the exception of a few businesses and organizations I enjoy hearing about, the wonderful people on my friend’s list are all truly people I know or have met through other friends and whom I consider an honor to call my friend.
Until next month, I wish you peace, love and every happiness.
Thanks to my wonderful sister, Michelle, my website, bgreenleaf.com has been totally revamped. The short stories page is still in the development stages, but will be available soon with new stories from the depths of my warped and demented mind.
Stay tuned to this station for forthcoming podcasts featuring none other than yours truly! We’re in the development stages and are currently putting together a studio here at Happy Acres. If nothing else, they’re sure to be interesting. More on that as the project progresses. As if I haven’t pissed off enough government agencies; now we’re going to poke the FCC tiger. *rubbing hands together while flashing an evil grin* Life is grand!